I hear you. I think we all might have a different idea of doom and gloom. I would consider that "oh it's not going to ever snow again" or "we're never going to have a shot at cold and snow this winter" or "I give up" (in December). Talking about a pattern that isn't really all that conducive for cold and snow isn't really doom and gloom. The other side of the coin -- blind optimism and ignoring reality is just as bad.
Most here want cold and snow...I think we can all pretty much agree on that. But if you look objectively at what is being shown currently, it doesn't' look like an alignment of favorable parameters to produce a cold and snowy pattern (of any duration) will occur over the next two weeks. Again, I'm not saying we can't perfectly time something during that time.
As you said, the pattern is changing to some degree. But the bulk of the cold air is still mostly too far away from us. We may get seasonably cool, but I think we can agree that is not a cold and snowy pattern. Beyond 2 weeks, who knows.
I'm optimistic that we can get a period where we see below normal temps, with a chance for snow. But we're going to have to move the western ridge east for that to happen or have the biggest, most perfectly placed -NAO you've ever seen.