Yeah, at this time, there aren't really any trends. There are oscillations. There are several key features that have the potential to interact in various ways. We've seen some favorable interactions (depending on where you are), and we've seen some unfavorable scenarios (also depending on where you are). Observe output over the next 3 days to determine legitimate trends. We'll be getting into the window where data is better sampled, model skill goes up, and trends will show themselves more reliably.
My guess, based on time of year, availability of cold air, and complexity of the setup is that the best chance for snow will be over the mountains and foothills into western VA and down into NW SC. I favor more of a mixy, icy scenario into the upstate of SC through the Triad of NC and potentially into central VA. The Triangle and down into north-central SC are in the game for some snow/mix before changing to rain cold. That is my favored scenario, but of course it is not set in stone.
We will need to see models lock into a strong high building in ahead of or in tandem with the storm (and not hauling arse OTS), the storm not getting too amped (we don't want early Miller B-ing or Apps Rubbering), and the storm not moving up the coast (at least not along the immediate coastline), if we want the more wintry scenarios farther south and east to pan out. This will be the harder road, but it is doable. Pay attention to how the models and ensembles trend over the next 3 days -- not 2 runs in a row, but over the longer period.