I agree judging others and hate are bad for this country and in general as well. At the same time one can be against a certain type of lifestyle based on who do all the time. I love them but I disagree with their lifestyle yet I’m able to be friends with them because I don’t go around condemning them or attacking them for their lifestyle choices. their religious beliefs without hating the person. For example, I’m against drinking alcohol or getting drunk but I have tons of friends Same with a person who is gay. I will be strongly against it just as I would a man who is cheating on his wife, but that doesn’t mean I can’t also be compassionate and caring towards that individual. Our society in general has lost the concept of being able to disagree with someone (whether political, religious or personal lifestyle choices) while still treating them with love and compassion. I can fully disagree with someone on various issues but still treat them with kindness and love and that’s how all Christians should be.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of Christians in general get a bad rap because I’ve seen some who are religious and go around constantly tearing others down and acting like they are happy that person is living a certain lifestyle (like homosexuality or infidelity). This causes people to broadbrush Christians and say we all are judgmental, condemning, hateful, etc when we really aren’t, just some who give Christians a bad look (just like with cops).