Then why are you doing it this way? He will never listen if you yell and insult him.
Man one of my life lessons I try to portray to as many people I can is on how to communicate. First thing I told my now wife when we started dating is we were not gonna fight. We will discuss but not fight over issues we may have.
Its a very common problem........we want people to hear WHAT we are saying versus HOW we are saying. The first raised voice or first curse AT someone is usually the end of any constructive conversation.
7 years on me and my wife have not fought or argued 1 single time in our relationship.