Fountainguy wrote a good response to your quotes, and stated it better than I could have; but I just wanted to respond a bit about the teaching of the Bible.
There are obviously many; MANY, people that see God in the old testament as a mean, angry, and hurtful God; and superficially I can understand why. Many people credit the OT as a major reason, or even
the reason they either gave up their faith or never had it to begin with. Many popular atheists like Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens, and Bill Maher certainly point to this "evil monster of a god" from the OT. But as Fountainguy described, the passages pointed to are often and easily misunderstood and used. The terrible things in the OT are
consequences of what people do and sin they orchestrate; not because God is terrible. There is a book you may want to read that helps frame some of this (I may have mentioned it before);
Is God a Moral Monster: Making Sense of The Old Testament God: by Paul Copan.
I agree that peace on this planet is absent; but I ascribe that to human flaw and weakness. Our envious and prideful nature (among other tendencies) insure that we don't know how to truly love and treat each other as we should. Tragically we know how to corrupt everything. It's true that religion (including Christianity) has often been used to justify terrible things, but that is why we need to judge religion by the
standards of that religion, and not the destructive followers.
Nowhere in the Bible is hate taught;
nowhere. (Remember, people today have a very warped view of the word "hate," ie. "if you don't approve of what I am doing then it is because of hate." Disapproval often has NOTHING to do with hate, as any parent knows.) In fact; the Bible is about love and reaching out. What is the greatest commandment?
Mark 12:30–31
30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”
John 3:16–17
16 For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.
Phillians 2:3
3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,
Matthew 5:43-47
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that?
And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?
Romans 13:8-10
Love Fulfills the Law
8 Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.
The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
John 13:34
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
There are literally hundreds of verses we could point out; but the Bible teaches forgiveness, turning from personal sin, reaching out to your neighbor, turning the other cheek, serving others, and loving others above all;
especially nonbelievers. The great commission Jesus gave is not to go out and kill nonbelievers, but to share the Gospel with them. What does the Gospel teach believers to do? Forgiveness, turning from personal sin, reaching out to your neighbor, turning the other cheek, serving others, and
loving others above all.