The greatest single cause of
atheism in the world today is
Christians who acknowledge
Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.
— Brennan Manning
I first heard that quote listening to a DC Talk song, "What if I Stumble" back in the 90s. I'll admit I don't know much about Brennan Manning or his beliefs but what I do know is that Christians have missed opportunities time and time again because of exactly what he stated. We fail to show the love that an all knowing, all powerful, forgiving, perfect God has shown to us, when we ourselves don't deserve it. We can love those who commit acts that aren't Godly or inline with Biblical teachings, but of course, those actions get misconstrued, taken to mean that if we don't accept a certain behavior then we must be filled with hate.
This isn't true and my point is I think many of us fail to effectively deliver that message. Hate the sin not the sinner isn't just a "catchy phrase" it literally is truth but do we show it as Christians?
Today's Bible App verse of the day is from John 13:34, Jesus said "
A new commandment I give you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another." There are no conditions placed on that love and Jesus also reminds us to love our enemies.
Now, this doesn't mean I condone sinful behavior, neither does Jesus, but, I certainly can and should love those who commit those sinful acts. We should love them and pray for them as Jesus loves us, unconditionally. We should love them because we are commanded to do so, we should also have love for lost souls and act accordingly, in a way that exemplifies that love, planting the seed and praying God will convict them.
We should be so concerned for lost souls, that we do not act in such a way that deters them from Christianity, but draws them to it. This is challenging in today's world, where we are told at every turn that because we do not condone homosexuality or transgenderism or sexual behavior not sanctioned by God's Holy Word, then we must be bigots'. I don't hate a single individual who lives lifestyles that are not sanctioned by our Creator and I've probably missed the mark on how I act in those situations I'm sure. What I should do is pray for forgiveness for my own shortcomings, lift them up in prayer, ask God to convict their hearts and pray they will allow him into their lives.
We as Christians can only plant the seed, share and show His love, live our lifestyles in accordance with His instruction, not in a way that can be viewed as a denial of his existence but in acknowledgement of who He is and pray, daily, for our own forgiveness and those who have yet to accept Him as their personal Savior.
2 Peter 3:9 says this -
The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
Not all will come to repentance and my heart aches for those, but it is not God's desire for anyone to perish and as long as one has breath of life they have hope and we as Christians should never give up on them.